love with the safety "off"

l.- when two people really love each other but they can't get it together, when do you get to that point where enough is enough?-
s.- that... oh, well, that's... you know? um, you know it's over when... ok, i have, like, these psychosomatic insomniatic manifestations of... well, here's the thing about me. i'm a product of my emotions, not a product of my environment, like him, which he is, exactly, just that environmental... i-i need sunshine to grow. that's who i am. and with the projection of... i have goals.-
l.- that's your answer?-
s.- yeah-
l.- that's not right. i mean, there's a right answer here, but that's not it. look, in my business you're surrounded by loneliness and finality. i don't care what your take is on an afterlife, when people die, it's scary, and they go alone. now, the people that i send off, that have experienced love... they're a little less scared. they're still scared, but there's a calmness to 'em. i think that comes from the knowledge that somebody somewhere loved 'em, and cared for 'em and will miss 'em. now, i see that from time to time and I am awed by it. i don't think i'd be telling you this if it wasn't for frank. anyway, it's a loaded question.
look, when two people love each other, totally, truthfully, all the way love each other, the answer to that question is simple, especially in your case: when do you get to that point where enough is enough?
¨never¨


*source. the mexican (2001). pitt & roberts.