change

S. -what i came to understand is that change is not a choice. it happens, and you are different-.

you can lie about it, you can pretend that everything is the same, you can fool anyone or at least think you are fooling them, but still, the change has taken place and you can not fool yourself or avoid it. it just happens...

like when you suddenly realize, you're in love.

*Adaptation 2002. Streep, Cage.